Reviews of Three Books about Feminization for Men
As a heterosexual male with breasts, it is an obvious fact that enlarging my breasts made me more like a woman. And it seems almost inevitable to want to explore the female aspects of living – from simple crossdressing to fully enveloping a woman’s role. To a greater or lesser extant than me, you maybe more desirous of further feminization. How far to go, whether it is just a little bit of pretending to full immersion, is your own personal concern.
Here are three books that will give you a wealth of information about feminization. Each book’s approach to the subject is unique enough to provide an extensive education…
Book Review: How To Feminize Your Face: Makeup and Hair Styling (The Art of Feminization) by Martine Song
Martine Song’s How To Feminize Your Face: Makeup and Hair Styling (The Art of Feminization) is a compact yet valuable guide aimed primarily at transgender women, crossdressers, gender nonconforming individuals, and anyone exploring feminization through aesthetics. It’s part how-to manual, part affirming companion for those beginning or refining their gender expression journey.
Content and Approach:
Song structures the book around practical techniques with a focus on enhancing facial femininity using makeup and hair. She covers foundational topics such as contouring, highlighting, brow shaping, eye makeup, lip enhancement, and hairstyling—all from a trans-affirming perspective. The book doesn’t just list products or steps; it thoughtfully explains why certain techniques work on typically masculine facial structures, helping readers understand the art behind the transformation.
Tone and Accessibility:
One of the book’s strengths is its supportive and inclusive tone. Song’s writing is never clinical or overly technical, making the content accessible even to beginners. She avoids the judgmental language sometimes found in beauty culture, and instead encourages experimentation and self-discovery. This makes the book feel like a friend offering advice rather than a lecture on passing.
Visuals and Practicality:
While some readers may find the book lacking in high-resolution images or step-by-step photo tutorials (depending on the edition), the descriptions are clear enough to follow. Those with visual learning preferences might supplement this book with online videos, but the written instructions are practical and specific enough to be very useful on their own.
Limitations:
The book doesn’t dive deeply into skincare, medical options, or facial feminization surgery alternatives, instead staying focused on non-invasive, cosmetic techniques. Those looking for more advanced or professional-level artistry might find the material too basic, but for its intended audience, that simplicity is part of its charm.
Conclusion:
Martine Song’s How To Feminize Your Face is a thoughtful and encouraging starting point for those exploring facial feminization through beauty techniques. It’s less about rigid rules and more about empowering readers to see makeup and hair as tools of self-expression. While it may not cover every possible nuance, it succeeds in its goal: offering a supportive, accessible guide to help individuals align their outer appearance with their inner identity.
Recommended for:
Beginners to feminization makeup and styling
Trans women, crossdressers, or nonbinary individuals seeking practical beauty tips
Anyone wanting a nonjudgmental, affirming guide to feminizing their appearance
Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5)
Accessible, affirming, and practical, with room to grow in visuals and depth.
To purchase or for more information =>: Available on Amazon https://amzn.to/4jFJQI3
Book Review: THE GIRLY GUIDE 2: The Complete and Definitive Guide to Total Feminization by Lilly Lustwood and Nikki Crescent
Lilly Lustwood and Nikki Crescent return with a bold and unapologetic sequel in THE GIRLY GUIDE 2: The Complete and Definitive Guide to Total Feminization. This guide dives deep into the aesthetics, mindset, and lifestyle aspects of feminization—offering both a continuation and expansion of their previous work, with an even stronger emphasis on embracing ultra-femininity in all its forms.
This book is styled as a comprehensive transformation manual for those pursuing male-to-female gender expression or exploring sissification, role-play, or lifestyle feminization. Lustwood and Crescent take a maximalist approach to femininity: makeup, fashion, voice training, etiquette, sexuality, body language, and mental conditioning are all explored with vivid detail and a tone that ranges from playful to provocative.
The authors clearly write for a specific niche—readers who are not only curious about feminization but fully committed to immersing themselves in an overtly feminine identity. While some may find the content heavily stylized or fetish-oriented, others will appreciate its complete devotion to the fantasy and lifestyle of total transformation. The language is colorful and confident, often mixing humor with assertive directives, which makes for an engaging—if occasionally exaggerated—reading experience.
One of the strengths of THE GIRLY GUIDE 2 is its breadth. It doesn’t just stop at beauty tips or clothing suggestions; it also ventures into psychological conditioning, routines, affirmations, and erotic elements that may appeal to those blending gender exploration with kink or personal transformation. The book acknowledges this openly and without shame, which contributes to its bold, identity-affirming tone.
However, readers looking for a more medically or socially grounded take on gender transition (e.g., HRT, voice therapy from speech pathologists, navigating public life, etc.) may find this guide more stylized than practical in those areas. That said, for readers seeking empowerment, fantasy, and a comprehensive toolkit for ultra-feminine presentation—particularly in the context of lifestyle or role-based feminization—this book delivers unapologetically.
Final Verdict:
Part beauty manual, part fantasy manifesto, THE GIRLY GUIDE 2 is for readers who crave intensity and immersion in the world of feminine transformation. It’s not for everyone—but for its intended audience, it’s both affirming and thrilling.
Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5)
To purchase or for more information =>: Available on Amazon
Feminizing Men – A Guide for Males to Achieve Maximum Feminization By Barbara Deloto and Thomas Newgen
Barbara Deloto and Thomas Newgen’s Feminizing Men positions itself as a comprehensive guide for those pursuing a deep and thorough male-to-female transformation—whether for personal identity, lifestyle choice, or relationship dynamics. With a tone that blends instruction with encouragement, the book addresses both the physical and psychological aspects of feminization, making it a resource for crossdressers, transgender women, and those engaging in feminization within a consensual power exchange.
The authors outline the process of feminization across several domains: wardrobe, grooming, body language, voice, behavior, and even sexual identity. There’s a focus on creating a believable, confident feminine presentation, which is both validating and affirming for readers serious about transformation. Additionally, the guide includes advice on the emotional shifts and mindset changes often involved in adopting a feminine identity, which adds a thoughtful, holistic layer to the book.
One of the strengths of Feminizing Men lies in its tone: it avoids sensationalism and instead provides detailed, methodical advice with a practical approach. Rather than pushing an exaggerated or fetishized image of femininity, the book often emphasizes authenticity and self-discovery. There are also suggestions for navigating relationships, confidence-building, and public presentation—elements that are crucial but often overlooked in other feminization guides.
However, readers should be aware that this book assumes a certain level of commitment and openness to identity transformation. It sometimes touches on elements of erotic roleplay and female-led dynamics, which may not apply to all readers. Still, these aspects are presented more as optional than prescriptive, and the tone remains generally respectful and inclusive.
Visually, the book is straightforward and text-heavy, with few images or diagrams. Some may find the layout a bit utilitarian, but the substance of the content compensates for the lack of visual aids.
Final Verdict:
Feminizing Men is an earnest, detailed, and respectful guide for those seriously exploring feminization. While it won’t appeal to every reader—especially those looking for medical transition advice or high-fashion makeup tutorials—it serves as a solid and supportive manual for lifestyle feminization, with an emphasis on confidence, authenticity, and personal growth.
Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5)
To purchase or for more information about this book go here: =>Available on Amazon.
News About Feminization
The First Time in Dress
Once it was a fantasy
to feminize
in the secret grotto
of sexual imaginings –
being a woman
with big breasts
in all sorts
of sordid situations…
Then one day,
the comedy group
I created laughter with was
shooting publicity photos –
two women in the cast
took me aside and applied
makeup, skirt, bra and blouse,
undid my male ponytail
to be the humor of drag,
but unsaid to them,
I never felt
so comfortable.
©2025 Carl Scott Harker, author of
Tahitian Woman and Vases:
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