Poll: When Did You Know You Wanted Breasts?

Here is a poll for you to participate in!

I was in my early fifties, when I woke up one day and decided to find out if a man could grow breasts. I had read decades earlier about the possibility of male breast growth in an anthropology text, but never really thought about it.

Then, I suddenly needed to grow breasts of my own and began my search on how to do it… I found several websites providing products for women to enhance their breasts, then I discovered the Transfemme website with its bovine ovaries product to induce male breast growth and feminization…

Then I got a copy of Flat to Fem where I learned how to use phytoestrogens to grow my breasts. And soon I was on my was to fulfilling this deep personal demand.

I am curious… How old were you when you just knew you wanted to have breasts – not as a fantasy, but for real…

You can check the latest results by clicking on the above link, but here is a average of what the poll has been showing overtime:

• 18-21 – 36%
• 21-30 – 3%
• 30-40 – 12%
• 40-50 – 9%
• 50 and over – 40%

It appears that the two largest groups having a “Breast Realization” are those who have just reached adulthood (18-21) and those who have had a chance to live life as a “regular” male and now want something else (50 and over).

I am not sure what conclusions to draw from this data… It should not be surprising that those men who have just come into their own sexually are open to having breasts (while still staying male or going towards being a woman). They are in the exploration period – checking out personal boundaries and figuring out who they really are.

But if you did not recognize an inner desire for female breasts early on, for most males it won’t be until you are, at least thirty, before realizing the possibilities. And for those who are 50+, perhaps it is becoming both comfortable with once self and/or financially comfortable that allows one to consider making oneself a new gender.

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When Did you Discover Your Feminine Side?

How old were you when you realized that you wanted to express your feminine side?

For myself, I grew up not thinking about gender at all. I was a boy, then a teen age boy and then a young male adult. Around the age of 16 I had typical teenage dates with girls and eventually as a young adult, I began my sexual life as well.

I was shy during those years and often described as “gentle” man, but there was no real thought of having breasts or otherwise feminizing myself – except in my fantasy life. The fantasy life a man has between dates and when the wife is away for a while. Then I found myself gravitating to fantasies about being a woman with special mental interests with the breasts…

But this was all fantasy and was not expressed or pursued in my real life. It was not until I had reached my early 50’s and discovered that a man can actually grow breasts that I suddenly found within myself that I had a real desire to feminize myself. Submerged deep in my subconscious and only acknowledged in fantasies, I wanted to have breasts and from time to time be a woman…

While I still have my male heterosexual lifestyle, I have become more complete as my fantasy of having breast has become a reality…

My opportunity to modify my gender – becoming a feman or more feminized male did not happen in a vacuum. Many men and women before me explored the various shades of gender that humans have and can have. They had operations and underwent hormone therapies to change their gender from male or female to male.

These transsexuals and transvestites and others had the courage to express their inner selves, despite what body they were born in, and despite what the general society of the moment said was right and wrong. It is right to be yourself and today we live in a world where it is much easier, in many more places, to be ourselves…

I want to express my appreciation for these gender pioneers who both created a safer social environment and pushed science to explore the possible ways to enhance and change our bodies. The knowledge that allowed me to experience male breast enlargement was due to those who came before us.

We, too, are gender pioneers – a heterosexual male with breasts is just one of the possible gender expressions and each of us is developing a unique expression. And this, I believe, makes our human society richer and better prepared for the future.

When I started growing breasts, I thought that it would preclude me from every being President…

But now I wonder, what with you, my peers, and other gender pioneers changing the boundaries of the possible, a day may come, not so long from now, that a man with breasts (or other gender variation) can be President…

I appreciate you all.