Men Aren’t Men, Women Aren’t Women

I recently came across the following poem:

You should ask me,
    Me, me, me
Because I know-
I used to live
    On the Eastern Shore.
Men aren’t men,
And women aren’t women,
And people aren’t people any more.

You will find this short stanza in a Science Fiction story entitled “The Dead Lady of Clown Town” by Cordwainer Smith. The basic theme behind the story is that animals, genetically altered to look and act as humans – are indeed human and that everyone is more than that…

It just reminded me, about one of the things that men who are growing breasts are doing. We are taking all of humanity towards another, greater ideal of freedom. That you and I, that all men, and all women, have the right to our bodies – to decide what we should look like and who we really are.

Society continues to learn that everyone of us has equal right regardless of our personal gender, but it is slow learning for so many of our neighbors around the globe.

As an adult, if growing breasts or making other changes is the right thing for you to do, then go for it. I think that such makes us more human and is helping us reach our greater potential. And this will ultimately be the best for all our future.

Still, we live in a world where part of our local communities and part of whole sections of the world – scorn differences and dictate a narrow vision of who we can be. But we are a part of tide of great change of possibility…

I say, that if you are growing breasts or want to, that you are not alone. Be brave, be careful and be yourself. Hurray for men with breasts!

Pros And Cons of Wearing A Bra

Is there any article of clothing that is more associated with being a woman than the bra? Kilts are the same as skirts. Togas and kimonas are somewhat like dresses. Shirts are like blouses. Men and women share many clothes that have different names, but look quite similar – except for the bra.

That is why I think that – for a man who is growing breasts – the moment when it makes sense to wear a bra is such a milestone. Whether it is a physical or emotional breakthrough or a psychological or symbolic moment – putting on a bra to support your new breasts, for the first time, is special. The little piece of clothing states, upon its wearing, that you are someone new.

Just as for young women, the first bra marks a coming of age, for a man enlarging his breast or other feminizing action, a bra can also mark that moment of true change…

For me, even after several years of wearing bras, I still get a “psychological boost” from them. Which is one of the pros of wearing a bra. Other pros include keeping me warmer in the winter – just another layer of cloth to keep away the cold air. In the summer, my bras do get damp from perspiration – which leads to a nice cooling effect, when a breeze hits the front of my body.

Of course, bras also support your breasts, which is important. And depending upon what you wear, a bra can actually de-emphasize your breasts – if your desire is to not let the general public know that you are a man with breasts.

On the con side of wearing a bra. Since my variation in gender is private, I generally wear clothes that obscure my breasts. There are some shirts that I cannot wear under those conditions because a bra will show through.

Additionally, the straps sometimes come loose or off my shoulders and need to be adjusted. And the straps sometimes bug my shoulders a little bit – comfort wise. And I do have to make tugging adjustments on the cups. But I suppose that any set of clothing needs adjustments from time to time…

I guess the only real con about wearing a bra is taking the time to put the bra on in the first place. Sometimes, I feel rushed when getting dressed and putting on a bra is one more step I have to take to get ready for work. And I do find it necessary to wear a bra at work or when I know I will be doing particular physical activities. Otherwise – my breasts will hurt, if they go unsupported.

In general, I love wearing a bra and I love the fact that I need to wear a bra. So what about you? How do you feel about wearing a bra? Leave a comment…

Some men with breasts or men who want to have breasts – have a further goal in mind – they want to bring the woman within themselves to the forefront – this might be at an emotional level or the goal might be a complete physical change into woman.

As I have referred to be before – I believe there are many variations of gender possible – from the four traditional male and female roles to heterosexual men with breasts to men who want to live life as a compete woman… Whatever your personal goal might be – there are many methods and tools at your disposal.

One tool, to help bring out the inner woman within you – that you might not have considered before – is the use of a trans sexual spell!

Such trans sexual spells might help you change emotionally, adjust your personality, change your voice or assist in other physical changes. Can such magic spells actually work?

I don’t know… I do know that there is more to this reality than we normally talk about. I do know that at the edges of physics – scientists have found a border that might be the realm of magic. I have had personal experiences that are paranormal in definition…

But whether you are a current believer in magic or not, I did want to bring this possibility to your attention. Part of making a change – once you know you want to – is to believe in that change. And belief is a kind of magic that leads to real actions and becoming the person you really are…

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