Strapless bras are a type of brassiere designed to be worn without shoulder straps, making them ideal for outfits with bare shoulders or styles that require a strapless look. Some men who have grown breasts and are new to wearing bras may want the bras they put on to be less noticeable – going strapless is a choice to consider.

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Here’s some information about strapless bras:

Support: Strapless bras are designed to provide support and lift without the use of shoulder straps. They typically feature underwire and a sturdy band that helps hold the bra in place. Some strapless bras also come with silicone or gripper strips on the inside of the band to prevent slipping.

Band Size: The band of a strapless bra plays a crucial role in providing support. It should fit snugly around your torso without feeling too tight or uncomfortable. It’s recommended to go down a band size (e.g., from a 36 to a 34) for a strapless bra to ensure a secure fit.

Cup Size: Finding the right cup size is equally important for a strapless bra. Ensure that the cups fully enclose your breasts without any spillage or gaps. If you’re in between cup sizes, you may want to consider trying different brands or styles to find the best fit.

Silicone or Underband Grips: Many strapless bras have silicone strips or underband grips on the inside of the band to help keep the bra in place. These features create friction against your skin, minimizing slippage and providing additional support.

Convertible Options: Some bras offer convertible features, allowing you to wear them as traditional bras with straps or as strapless bras by detaching the straps. This versatility can be convenient if you need a bra that can adapt to different outfits.

Sizing: For men with breasts, it can help to have a woman in your life who can help ensure you find bras with the best fit and support. Bra sizing can vary among brands, so don’t hesitate to try on different sizes to find the one that works best for you. It’s always a good idea to try on different styles and brands to find the strapless bra that suits your body shape, comfort preferences, and specific outfit needs.

Remember that strapless bras may not provide the same level of support as bras with shoulder straps, especially for those with larger cup sizes. However, advancements in design and materials have improved the support and comfort of strapless bras over the years. They can be fun to try out and wear and may fill your needs in different settings. Search for more strapless bras here on Amazon.

Don’t forget about regular bras. While you can easily shop online for choice and privacy, if you are adventuresome, explore different lingerie stores and try on various styles of bras. Be sure to experiment with different colors, patterns, and designs to find something that makes you feel confident and comfortable.

And once you have the bras you like consider customizing them. Get crafty and personalize your bras. Use fabric paints, ribbons, lace, or other embellishments to add unique designs or patterns to your bras. You can create something that reflects your personality or matches a particular outfit or theme.

It is important to have fun and feel comfortable in whatever you choose to do with bras. Respect your own boundaries and preferences, and ensure that any activities involving bras are consensual and enjoyable for all participants.

Here is a poem by Carl Scott Harker. I read this poem elsewhere and was given permission to print it here. I think it relates well with the subject matter of this blog and I hope you will find it interesting.

Two Spirits by Carl Scott Harker

Here is a Two-Spirit Native American-Crossdressing Woman from the Early 1900’s A copy of this image can be purchased here: Two-Spirit Native American Vintage Nude Woman Crossdressing 8.5×11″ Photo Print

I know a
Man with breasts
A woman with a penis
She fucks and he nurses.
_____________________________
I know a woman
Who sleeps
With men
And women
And finds love with both.
_____________________________
I know men who
Now wear a woman’s body
And women who wear men’s
And they fight at
The front lines of our wars.
_____________________________
My family has bred
Men who lay with men
Women who lay with women
And we feast together
On holidays
And share the family ties
Of love and fun.
_____________________________
I know the soft, bright art
Of the girl-man
And the quiet competence
Of the male-woman.
_____________________________
Oh, my, 2-spirit friends
And families
And strangers from afar,
I feel the two spirits within me
And they dance
And dance
A billion different steps.

— ©2019 Carl Scott Harker

I hope you enjoyed this poem as much as I did. I always recommend reading a poem, twice, at least. Please feel free to critique the poem, itself, as the poet appreciates feedback. And, of course, comments on the overall subject matter are welcome, too.

Aleya

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Here is another personal poem by a friend, I think the readers of this site will appreciate – especially the ending!

I Love Breasts

If you can’t say something nice
About a woman’s breasts,
You need to learn more words!

I love breasts
Of all sizes and shapes and variations
I remember the first pair of breasts
I was intimate with
They were soft and firm
White with thick brown nipples
Surrounded by large circles of the areolas,
She was my first serious girlfriend
And I was so lucky to touch,
Kiss and suck on her breasts
They were 34 C’s according to her bra –
A short hair grew near the nipple
On her right breast,
And I always meant to tell her
How much I loved it
Though I think it was more
Of an embarrassment to her,
But all the petting we did
Did not lead to a lasting relationship
Which might have allowed me
To broach the subject…

I won’t try to catalog
All the breasts I have known up close
Or all the cleavage and side boobs,
Bouncing breasts,
Erect nipples pushing out cloth
And small and large bosoms,
I have admired

I think my dream job
Would have been the making of a travelogue –
“Breasts around the World,”
But I was beaten by a German-Bohemian duo
Of photographers in the early 1900’s
Who traveled North Africa,
Lehnert & Landrock were their names
And they set out to make postcards more popular
With various portrayals of nude women
Living in the various tribes and native groups
Of that time

And these men were followed by other photographers
Capturing the beauty of naked women
Now called vintage nudes
Bellocq photographed prostitutes in New Orleans
While later Alfred Cheney Johnston had a career of
Revealing on film the au naturel talents
Of Ziegfeld Follies female stars and dancers
Including some celebrities you might know
Like Claudette Colbert, Dorothy Flood and Clara Bow

Perhaps, I should take a moment,
To declare I am enchanted by the entire form
And all the parts of a female
Beauty is beauty
And this poem is not about objectifying women,
It is but an expression of my sexual reproductive
Sexual excitement system –
My hormonal cells
Tended to latch onto breasts first,
As my sexual awareness blossomed,
And I have yet to lose my fascination for them

Perhaps this is just a natural formation from
My first experiences in puberty,

When kissing and holding hands
Could lead to the touching of a girlfriend’s breasts,
But going further lead
To the dire danger of pregnancy

Or, perhaps, the psychiatrists among you
Will find this incident informative:

One day coming home from school
And walking into the living room
I found my mother breastfeeding
My baby brother, 13-years my younger,
And Mom asked me a question
That I was completely unprepared for,
“Would I like to taste her breast milk?”

I was about to answer affirmatively
When I noticed my sister watching
From where she stood
On the stairs above me
And a sheath of humiliating shyness
Overwhelmed me and I said, “No.”
And stumbled off to my room.

I don’t know why Mom asked,
The subject never rose
Perhaps, she just wanted to have
A mother – son basic bonding
One more time,
But my opportunity
To be again her baby
For just a little while
This time with a conscious mind
Was forever lost

Still, for whatever reason in my psyche,
I love breasts
And you might ask,
“If I love breasts so much,
“Why don’t I grow a pair?”

Living in a world
With so many gender striations,
I just might do that!

                  ©2021 Carl Scott Harker