Here is a poem by Carl Scott Harker. I read this poem elsewhere and was given permission to print it here. I think it relates well with the subject matter of this blog and I hope you will find it interesting.

Two Spirits by Carl Scott Harker

Here is a Two-Spirit Native American-Crossdressing Woman from the Early 1900’s A copy of this image can be purchased here: Two-Spirit Native American Vintage Nude Woman Crossdressing 8.5×11″ Photo Print

I know a
Man with breasts
A woman with a penis
She fucks and he nurses.
_____________________________
I know a woman
Who sleeps
With men
And women
And finds love with both.
_____________________________
I know men who
Now wear a woman’s body
And women who wear men’s
And they fight at
The front lines of our wars.
_____________________________
My family has bred
Men who lay with men
Women who lay with women
And we feast together
On holidays
And share the family ties
Of love and fun.
_____________________________
I know the soft, bright art
Of the girl-man
And the quiet competence
Of the male-woman.
_____________________________
Oh, my, 2-spirit friends
And families
And strangers from afar,
I feel the two spirits within me
And they dance
And dance
A billion different steps.

— ©2019 Carl Scott Harker

I hope you enjoyed this poem as much as I did. I always recommend reading a poem, twice, at least. Please feel free to critique the poem, itself, as the poet appreciates feedback. And, of course, comments on the overall subject matter are welcome, too.

Aleya

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Pros And Cons of Wearing A Bra

Is there any article of clothing that is more associated with being a woman than the bra? Kilts are the same as skirts. Togas and kimonas are somewhat like dresses. Shirts are like blouses. Men and women share many clothes that have different names, but look quite similar – except for the bra.

That is why I think that – for a man who is growing breasts – the moment when it makes sense to wear a bra is such a milestone. Whether it is a physical or emotional breakthrough or a psychological or symbolic moment – putting on a bra to support your new breasts, for the first time, is special. The little piece of clothing states, upon its wearing, that you are someone new.

Just as for young women, the first bra marks a coming of age, for a man enlarging his breast or other feminizing action, a bra can also mark that moment of true change…

For me, even after several years of wearing bras, I still get a “psychological boost” from them. Which is one of the pros of wearing a bra. Other pros include keeping me warmer in the winter – just another layer of cloth to keep away the cold air. In the summer, my bras do get damp from perspiration – which leads to a nice cooling effect, when a breeze hits the front of my body.

Of course, bras also support your breasts, which is important. And depending upon what you wear, a bra can actually de-emphasize your breasts – if your desire is to not let the general public know that you are a man with breasts.

On the con side of wearing a bra. Since my variation in gender is private, I generally wear clothes that obscure my breasts. There are some shirts that I cannot wear under those conditions because a bra will show through.

Additionally, the straps sometimes come loose or off my shoulders and need to be adjusted. And the straps sometimes bug my shoulders a little bit – comfort wise. And I do have to make tugging adjustments on the cups. But I suppose that any set of clothing needs adjustments from time to time…

I guess the only real con about wearing a bra is taking the time to put the bra on in the first place. Sometimes, I feel rushed when getting dressed and putting on a bra is one more step I have to take to get ready for work. And I do find it necessary to wear a bra at work or when I know I will be doing particular physical activities. Otherwise – my breasts will hurt, if they go unsupported.

In general, I love wearing a bra and I love the fact that I need to wear a bra. So what about you? How do you feel about wearing a bra? Leave a comment…

Does Changing Your Breasts Mean Changing Your Life?

For a man – changing your breasts probably means growing breasts in the first place. But once you decide to enlarge your breasts and they start appearing, does that mean your life has to change to reflect the new breasts?

Not necessarily. Of course, if you are growing breasts as part of a transgender change – then sure, this is part of you becoming a physical woman and that is a whole new life. Or if you are planning to start going out with the girls, more in the crossdressing mode, and/or take on other female roles in society – then your new breasts will help you make those changes in your life.

But what if you want to have breasts and still maintain the male role, at least most of the time. Is that possible? Yes.

I have initiated male breast enlargement and have c cup sized breasts. I am married and live a heterosexual life and still lead the same male societal life as before. Mostly…

I do wear clothes that hide my figure. I do not go swimming in public, but otherwise, my work life and my friends and family life are basically the same. Besides my wife – no one knows about my breasts.

I am not ashamed of my body or of being a feman (my gender word for a man with breasts and a more feminine outlook) – I just haven’t had the need to share it or to make it obvious. I must admit. I had plans to do more girl time, but the Republican economic recession that started in 2008 forced me to spend more time on basic survival as opposed to gender exploration.

But the point here is this: If you want to express your new breasts in a public way then go for it. But, unless your physique is such that you cannot hide your breasts, then you can keep them from being obvious and need only share your improvements with those who are most intimate in your life.

My male breast enlargement has been one of the best changes in my life ever, but it has not forced me to make unwanted changes in my life – it has just allowed me to be more of myself.

Let me know your experiences and concerns…